Category Archives: brain research

The Disconnect.

There is a profound disconnect between an active alcoholic’s self perception and the image others develop about him/her.

Repeated blackouts cause both memory fails and amnesia; whereas those who were present observers of the blackout behaviors cannot forget what they have seen and heard, to the alcoholic such behaviors never happened.

Therefore, the person the alcoholic thinks he or she is bears no resemblance to that person others have come to know.

If you have become entangled in the life of an active alcoholic who indulges repeated blackouts, categorically reject all blame assigned to you for any of their actions.

You caused nothing, are responsible for nothing about their behavior, and must forgive yourself every reaction to it.






© 10/1/19    Ruth Ann Scanzillo.

“Separation Anxiety” [newly edited]

This video has been edited for content.  Please, reconsider a review.  Remember: these disclosures may strike you as raw, but they are bound to help somebody and that is the intent. Thanks~!  ❤


© 9/12/19    Ruth Ann Scanzillo.   For more tedious slog, please visit Ruth Ann Scanzillo at YouTube.  Thanks for the stop in.



RuthAnnTALKS© – The Series.


This is a series of videos produced for YouTube, created between August 1, 2019 – September 8, 2019. The links are presented in chronology, but you may select according to preference. Thanks for stopping by!


© 9/9/19    Ruth Ann Scanzillo.   All references to previously established theories, tenets, or publications are inadvertent and are duly acknowledged.